The fam

It is terribly difficult to feed my family clean meals and snack ALL the time. I've found that the easiest way to avoid feeding them crap is to not buy it, but my family and my husbands family seem to always send the kids home with snacks. I feel like such a jerk for wanting the throw them directly in the trash, so I rarely do. How do you help your "outside" family understand that we don't want our children to eat the crap, without upsetting them? It's very difficult. I've tried to be subtle, I've even bought my inlaws Clean Eating Magazines, but I don't think anyone was phased by it. They probably thought I was crazy. LOL Any tips? Anyone, Anyone?